1·It makes it too common, too indelicate, too apparent... the mystery, after all, is what makes it so good.
谈论性会让性变的太普通，太粗俗，太明显，毕竟是她的神秘让她如此富有魅力。
2·People often dream of comfortable and elegant life, but I prefer this indelicate and casual pattern. Maybe I belong to the later.
人总会憧憬舒适、高雅的生活，但我内心更倾向这种粗俗、随意的方式。