1·You may be made to look selfish and uncaring, but you need to protect yourself first.
或许这样会让你看起来自私和心不在焉，但是你首先需要保护自己。
2·The hostility and separation between father and son in this book shows that uncaring parents can cause serious damage in relationships with their children.
敌意和分离的父亲和他的儿子在这本书显示，心不在焉的父母会造成严重破坏在和孩子的关系。
3·Three of these are uncaring parents, marriage without knowing the person, and jealousy.
这三个都心不在焉的父母，婚姻不了解的人，和嫉妒。